Feminist Manifesto

"The final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands" - Anne Frank

I've been waiting for this moment for a while. I'm not talking about finally forming my character, I still have much to learn and experience. I'm talking about writing a feminist manifesto! It is such a fluid term meaning so many different things and resurfacing both positive and negative connotations; yet, it affects everyone whether it is overt or innate.
Listening and befriending various women (and men) over the years, I have realized that I am very lucky to be able to choose my path. I am fortunate for my support system. Although they may or may not choose feminism as one of their beliefs or ways to live, I do thank them for their appreciation of my choices.

You have so much power. I have learned this ever since I knew the meaning of feminism. It starts as a mindset and it should transcend it. Whether it is getting up every morning and telling yourself "Yes I can"or doing good for you or another person, power lies within you and starts here. You don't have to have money or be fluent in world politics to obtain power. It is a self-realization. And don't take it for granted.

Look back (every once and a while), but don't walk backwards. We should know by now that everyone makes choices (and some regrets). But I have learnt that there are no real "mistakes" Learn from your choices but don't live in the past and wake up saying "shoulda woulda coulda". Success will never materialize. Appreciate the positive times and take it from there.

Take responsibility. For your feelings, decisions and your fate. Accept that there are consequences and backlash. You must take care of yourself first and foremost. It starts and ends with you. Sometimes we have to do things that we don't like but the hard work will pay off and people will respect you all the more for it.

Show emotion. (For the male feminists) It is a healthy way to communicate. It is not a "woman's thing" it is human nature.

Make small changes. If you are unhappy with something, then figure out what you can do to change your fate. It is much easier to give up or to expect them handed to you. Bettering yourself is crucial to happiness in the end.

Love. Yourself. Your friends. The people that matter. The people who you appreciate and the people who appreciate you. Thank them.

Be sexual. Self-explanitory! (I hope!) Disregard people's attitudes towards what is "right" and "good" sexual behaviour. Never refer to yourself as someone's (insert explicit term here). Explore ways to enhance your intimate relationship. Purchase something vibrating for YOU.
Build up trust by foreplay. Talk about not just your needs, but your wants. And save those cucumbers for your salad!